Most of us are experiencing stressful times in our homes, jobs – even with traffic. What we are thinking often comes out in words we wish we could take back. I even caught myself the other day using a death word on myself. “What a dummy,” I said out loud. The reason we started this family blog four years ago was to encourage you to speak Life Words TODAY!!! That is a virtue we all need to work on.
You know that your words can bring life or death to yourself or to another person. However, the repeated edification of words that build up another person’s perception of who he is, brings life and hope to one who has been beaten down by destructive words. We see this often in children. Those who have received encouragement as a child usually excel in school, talents, and careers. There are exceptions, however to that rule in that some of our most gifted scientists, artists and musicians have overcome years of abuse. What makes the difference? Well, for one thing we read in God’s Word that God loves each one of us unconditionally. When you know that, it changes everything! It changes how you feel about yourself and what your gifts are.
Psalm 139:14 states that we are fearfully and wonderfully made. Each one of us are precious in His sight. God cares about the sparrow that falls, but He cares about you even more!!! In knowing this we can live above any death words our ears and heart take in. You’re probably thinking…”Yeah, right. Easy to say, but hard to do.” But, you have worth! God has made you so unique there is not another person like you.
Today, i encourage you to read the Book of Proverbs. There are 31 chapters. If you read one chapter every day in a month you will gain wisdom and understanding of who God is…and who you are!
Each one of us have been given a free will by God. In that free will you can choose to be abusive with your words (and actions), or you can give healing with your words (and actions). Yes, we are just human after all, but controlling the tongue is a discipline that builds good character.
When you explode with anger you cannot take back your words or actions. A runaway temper can cause depression, especially when you create a circle of resentment. You become angry at yourself because you lost your temper……that adds guilt, which continues on in a vicious circle.
Proverbs 14: 17 “A person who quickly loses his temper does foolish things.”
Paul told the Christians in Ephesus, “In your anger do not sin. Do not let the sun go down while you are angry.” If you stay angry it turns into bitterness, even hatred, and that, Paul says, “will give the Devil a foothold.” That is when anger becomes sin. Anger starts in the heart and mind. “The heart is deceitful and desperately wicked, who can know it.” Jeremiah 17:9